When women marched in
Phoenix, the one woman we heard about had gained her 15 minutes of fame because she marched bare breasted. Some observers referred
to her as lewd and immoral, suggesting she was asking to be assaulted. Others said
we should focus on her heart and soul and not whether her top was plunging. She
wasn’t, this group insisted, “asking for it”.
While we can’t know what
she was thinking when she walked out her door and joined the march, we can be
pretty sure that she was not thinking she wanted to be assaulted. Women don’t
want to be assaulted. We can assume, however, that her aim was to attract
attention and at that she was successful. That does not mean she was asking to
be raped.
Trying to look at this
objectively, the first step of influence, of getting attention and eliciting a
response, negative or positive, is attracting attention. Animals know, perhaps
instinctively, that attracting attention makes them vulnerable, that attracting
attention can lead to death or rape. That is why so many have protective
coloration. Humans, of course, are more complex. We have bigger brains and more
complex behavior and culture. The function of breasts, for humans and other
female animals, is to nourish an infant. Here, in the U.S., however, breasts
are seen as sexual objects. Bare breasted women inhabit the pages of men’s
magazines presumably because men find them enticing. While breasts are not
ignored in other, very different types of cultures, the males see breasts in
terms of their function – feeding an infant. When I lived with a tribe in a remote
part of the Ecuadorian jungle, the women, traditionally, had gone bare breasted.
At that time, shortly after outsiders began to enter the area, only older women
continued that tradition. Younger women, when asked why they covered themselves,
said that they felt uncomfortable -- outsiders stared at their breasts. The local
men, as far as I could determine through observation and conversation, did not
refer to breasts as sexually tempting. They referred to them as milks. Culture,
in other words, seems to have a strong influence on what women do publically and
how males interpret what they do and, given opportunity and depending on
character, subsequently respond.
A great many women,
including fully clad ones like Catholic sisters in habits and women in burkas have
been assaulted. What this suggests is that women themselves, not just their
breasts attract the attention of males. Women are vulnerable to assault when
they are in a powerless position and in the presence of a male who does not
exercise self-control. Clearly we are not talking about most men, only some
men.
Going bare breasted in
public does attract attraction. Doing so may have positive effects -- commentary
in the local news and possibly a starring role in a Hollywood film. It is
equally likely, however, that showing your breasts -- when they are seen as
sexual objects -- can make you vulnerable, attracting the attention of someone
you never would want to meet. Simpler
animals can teach us important lessons if we open our minds to learning;
attracting attention can be dangerous.